I have three mentors.
When Im stuck on a problem and need their help, I take the time to write a good description of my dilemma, before reaching out to them. I summarize the context, the problem, my options, and thoughts on each. I make it as succinct as possible so as not to waste their time.
Before sending it, I try to predict what theyll say. Then I go back and update what I wrote to address these obvious points in advance. Finally, I try again to predict what theyll say to this, based on what theyve said in the past and what I know of their philosophy.
Then, after this whole process, I realize I dont need to bother them because the answer is now clear.
If anything, I might email to thank them for their continued inspiration.
Truth is, Ive hardly talked with my mentors in years. None of them know they are my mentors. And one doesnt know I exist.
