Look at the car he's driving. Look at the watch he's wearing. Look at the girl he's with. That's unattainable to many people, so it seems like it's valuable. But then you attained it, and then you realized, oh, this is not valuable; this is just difficult to get. And there's a difference; there's a big difference. What's valuable is something that fulfills you intellectually emotionally, spiritually and lovingly.